Winning an award vs Imposter Syndrome ➡️ A hot off-the-press case study
Buckle up, this is a raw and hot off-the-press conversation!
Have you ever experienced Imposter Syndrome? That gnawing doubt, that persistent feeling of not deserving recognition or accomplishments? Well, you're not alone. A staggering 82% of women grapple with this, and being nominated for an award becomes the ultimate stress-test for how you deal with it.
I’ve helped so many clients over the years get over the Imposter Syndrome about being nominated for awards, and be able to properly celebrate and bask when they win, or deal with the upcoming stuff when they lose.
As a coach, I never claim to be the finished article…. and last night a huge personal milestone for me in my journey with Imposter Syndrome as I faced it head-on.
To set the scene: last night was the Smart Works Leeds Fashion as a Force for Good Ball where Lean In Leeds Women of Excellence (an event team I was part of that celebrates women in business) was nominated for the Event of the Year.
The atmosphere was incredible and the room was filled with high-profile figures from business. Everyone looked fabulous. However, as I stepped into this room, my inner critic awakened, screaming, "You don't belong here."
As the nominations progressed, my Imposter Syndrome amplified. It whispered, "They're just being nice; you don't deserve this."
The culmination arrived as the possibility of winning crept into my mind. It was the perfect storm of feeling undeserving and fearing the spotlight.
Then, something shifted.
And I realised—I'd put in the work. My team and I dedicated ourselves to bring the vision to life. The event we organised, the impact we made—it was substantial. I deserved to acknowledge and celebrate that achievement.
When we were announced as winners, it was surreal. Stepping onto the stage, I accepted the award, enjoying the moment and owning the achievement alongside my team.
I’ve brought the award to work, even slept with it—a tangible reminder of celebration and ownership.
So, how did I turn the tables on Imposter Syndrome? I've done the inner work. I've acknowledged that inner voice, understanding its purpose—keeping me safe, steering me away from discomfort. But I've learned not to let it dictate my moments of celebration.
Here’s my invitation to you if you struggle with Imposter Syndrome:
From Monday 20th November, I'm hosting a free coaching series, the Imposter Epiphany.
It's about taking control of your imposter syndrome, empowering yourself, and finishing the year on an invincible note. If this resonates, join me on this journey to conquer imposter syndrome and step into your power.
Find out more and register here